Hash It Out? Just Say "NOOOO"
“Sometimes we fall down and can’t get back up
We’re hiding behind skin that’s too tough
How come we don’t say I love you enough
Till it’s too late, it’s not too late” lyrics from Live Like You’re Dying
I am often amused by my clients and the paradoxical lives they choose to live. I use the word paradox because many of my clients come to me looking to know when they will be reunited with a loved one. They are always wistful when I can’t tell them a specific time and then when I can see a reunion coming very soon, there are many times when the wistfulness turns to defensiveness. Admittedly there are times when the temptation to bang my head on my computer almost overtakes me when the very same person who has been depressed and frustrated for what seems like an eternity to them, finally gets good news and is now ready to either give their former mate a tongue lashing or not take their calls at all.
While I am a huge proponent of communication in all relationships, I am at the same time, not a fan of the concept of “re-hashing” for the simple reason that we cannot undo what has been done since it resides in a past which no longer exists. If our reality is now, then we can only move from this point forward and it does not serve anyone to start out with a discussion of past grievances. Hopefully, each person involved would have had sufficient time to think about their role in the parting, while at the same time understanding where the other person was coming from. Mistakes made in the past do not need to be reviewed as a couple. Once the couple is back together, if some of the old “issues” arise, then they could be addressed at that time. However, if we let spirit take the lead, we would not expect the “old issues” because they were a part of the past and the assumption is that they no longer exist. What does exist is the person that is standing in front of you desiring the same thing as you do; a new beginning .After all, it isn’t the “issues” that brings a couple back together, but rather all of the good memories and a special connection they feel. A spiritual person would choose to recognize the growth and the love or affection which brings the other person forward. Ego wants to “re-hash”, spirit wants to “rejoice”.
A reunion is a gift that each person gives to the other. They honor the spirit within each other by seeking to transcend the ego difficulties that have existed. Each person chooses instead, to see the beauty of the soul beneath. Love is indeed more powerful than fear.
Online tarot readings are available through www.sashastearoom.com
We’re hiding behind skin that’s too tough
How come we don’t say I love you enough
Till it’s too late, it’s not too late” lyrics from Live Like You’re Dying
I am often amused by my clients and the paradoxical lives they choose to live. I use the word paradox because many of my clients come to me looking to know when they will be reunited with a loved one. They are always wistful when I can’t tell them a specific time and then when I can see a reunion coming very soon, there are many times when the wistfulness turns to defensiveness. Admittedly there are times when the temptation to bang my head on my computer almost overtakes me when the very same person who has been depressed and frustrated for what seems like an eternity to them, finally gets good news and is now ready to either give their former mate a tongue lashing or not take their calls at all.
While I am a huge proponent of communication in all relationships, I am at the same time, not a fan of the concept of “re-hashing” for the simple reason that we cannot undo what has been done since it resides in a past which no longer exists. If our reality is now, then we can only move from this point forward and it does not serve anyone to start out with a discussion of past grievances. Hopefully, each person involved would have had sufficient time to think about their role in the parting, while at the same time understanding where the other person was coming from. Mistakes made in the past do not need to be reviewed as a couple. Once the couple is back together, if some of the old “issues” arise, then they could be addressed at that time. However, if we let spirit take the lead, we would not expect the “old issues” because they were a part of the past and the assumption is that they no longer exist. What does exist is the person that is standing in front of you desiring the same thing as you do; a new beginning .After all, it isn’t the “issues” that brings a couple back together, but rather all of the good memories and a special connection they feel. A spiritual person would choose to recognize the growth and the love or affection which brings the other person forward. Ego wants to “re-hash”, spirit wants to “rejoice”.
A reunion is a gift that each person gives to the other. They honor the spirit within each other by seeking to transcend the ego difficulties that have existed. Each person chooses instead, to see the beauty of the soul beneath. Love is indeed more powerful than fear.
Online tarot readings are available through www.sashastearoom.com
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