The Devil Made Me Do It, Or Not

My hands down favorite card from the Tarot of the Sidhe is the Devil, which she calls, Pan. In my mind, to use Pan is perfection for this supposedly oh so evil card. Some of the most common, associations of the card The Devil include obsession, addiction, and incarceration with an underlying meaning that passion is evil. In the tarot, there are positive associations with every card, even The Devil. Pan is the god of mirth merriment and debauchery. He is a happy fun guy perhaps because he is living his passion and enjoying life. This is the very positive side of The Devil. In the positive aspect of The Devil, he represents someone who has released him/herself from restrictions that have been self imposed. They are now free to live their lives with freedom from self judgment. In the traditional tarot depiction of The Devil, it is not the Devil that is holding the people in chains, it is themselves. Their hands and legs are free to unhook the chains that bind them. The Devil has a belly button, making him man made. As far as the aspect of obsession that this card represents, again, obsession can be taken in two ways. Michelangelo and other great and now famous artists, are examples of people who had an obsession, or passion for their work. If there is a lack of passion and intensity about anything, life would indeed be bland. If we were to substitute the word "passion" for "obsession" how would our outlook change? Obsession is an overly dramatic word. It implies extreme and unhealthy. There is no doubt that such emotion and behavior does exist and is not that uncommon, it also holds that passion is equally common if not more so. People who fear their feelings, who fear change, and letting go of control, would automatically come to the most negative conclusions when seeing The Devil pop up in a reading. These people often see others as having the negative qualities of The Devil, never realizing that almost always the Devil is pointing back at them. In relationship readings that I do, The Devil often comes up for the missing person. I interpret that as the other person restricting themselves from coming forth and owning their feelings towards the client. Past events and perhaps current ones as well are preventing this absent person from returning, but what they don't realize is that it is only their fear that is stopping them. Circumstances do not restrict us. We restrict ourselves. If there are obstacles in place, they can be removed. There are solutions to every problem if we have the desire to find them and to follow through with them. I also counsel my client when seeing this card, that given the position her loved one is in, there is nothing to be done but to hope that love will conquer fear. To continue to push the issue, to reach out when there is no response, becomes the negative quality of The Devil because it shows the lack of belief in oneself and all of the beautiful qualities they possess. When a person feels that they must constantly be in pursuit of the unresponsive person, I like to use the analogy that continuously banging on a closed door will only bloody the hand. while there is nothing weak or obsessive about loving another person and believing in them despite what is shown, it is not for any of us to try to persuade another about how they feel or should feel, we need only concern ourselves with our own beliefs and passions. Giving way to our true feelings, and embracing our passion will allow us to banish the negative qualities of The Devil and instead embrace the lusty fun side of this card.

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